By HIS Grace

Do you ever stop to think about the people who are in your life and how much of your life they occupy. From time to time that thought comes across my mind.  More so if I am looking up someone's phone number or I come across them on social media. Over the years I have lost contact with friends and even purged people from my social media feeds.  The lost of contact didn't have so much to do with a falling-out, as much as it did with just growing apart.  Throughout life we all change and go our separate ways.  And for the ones that I did have to purge and not keep in contact with, that choice was made because I had changed and their place in my life needed to change. When I think about friendships and relationships past and present, I think about the amount of space they had or have in my life. I am learning how to function in my relationships with people.  How to have healthy and balanced relationships. What and how much access to give.  For years, many of the relationships tha