By HIS Grace

This past week has been very busy.  It's funny how when you are off from work and you set in your mind that you are going to take the time to rest and relax ... yeah! that didn't seem to happen for me this past week.  However, I was able to get a massage in, so I guess that counts for something and my day even included family time which I always enjoy.  One of the most exciting things that I did involved being on a large platform to bring awareness on a controversial topic to a large population of women.  After reflecting on the event to be even more effective for the next time, I also began to reflect on myself.  Not so much of what I did right or wrong during the event, but on myself as a whole; where I am today in my womanhood. You see, there use to be a time in my life when I would be in settings where the majority is made up of women, I would be quick to size myself up with every woman in the room.  My mind would begin to spin the wheels of comparison and judgement.  I w